Couples Therapy
in Granada Hills, California
And virtually throughout Los Angeles & California
Stop having the same argument over and over. Understand what's happening underneath it.
Relationships don't usually struggle because two people don't love each other. They struggle because old survival patterns, nervous system responses, and unmet needs keep pulling you into the same cycle.
Together, we'll slow those patterns down, understand where they came from, and build new ways of connecting.
Can You Relate?
✔ You keep having the same argument—even when neither of you wants to.
✔ One of you shuts down while the other pursues, and neither of you feels heard.
✔ You're starting to feel more like roommates than partners.
✔ You love each other, but it feels like you're speaking different languages.
✔ Small disagreements quickly become bigger than either of you expected.
✔ You both want things to feel different—you just don't know how to get there.
These Patterns Make Sense
Every relationship develops patterns.
Maybe one of you learned to avoid conflict while the other learned to chase reassurance. Maybe one of you needs space while the other needs closeness. Neither response is "wrong"—they're often adaptations that once helped you feel safe.
The problem isn't that either of you is broken. It's that two protective systems have learned to react to each other in ways that leave both of you feeling misunderstood.
What Couples Therapy Looks Like
Couples therapy isn't about deciding who's right.
It's about slowing down the cycle that's keeping both of you stuck.
Together, we'll explore the experiences that shaped each of you, understand the nervous system responses that show up during conflict, and build practical ways to communicate, repair, and reconnect.
My approach combines insight, emotionally focused interventions, nervous system work, and practical relationship tools so you can move from reacting to understanding—and from surviving your relationship to feeling connected again.
Couples I Often Work With
• High-achieving couples
• New parents
• LGBTQIA+ couples
• Couples recovering from betrayal or disconnection
• Long-term partners who feel disconnected
• Couples navigating life transitions
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Your Relationship Doesn't Have to Stay Stuck
You don't have to keep having the same conversations or wondering why you can't seem to reach each other.
Together, we'll understand the patterns beneath the conflict and build a relationship that feels more connected, secure, and authentic.
